How to stand against sexual violence

October is Sexual Violence Awareness Month and, with the sharp rise in reported sexual assaults, it’s time to reflect on the practical steps each of us can take to prevent sexual violence and build communities where respect and safety are embedded in our culture. 

There were 40,087 victims of sexual assault recorded in Australia in 2024, an increase of 10% (or 3,735 victims) from the previous year¹.  The most recently published Personal Safety Survey, 2021-22 found that 22% of women and 6.1% of men aged 18 years and over have experienced sexual violence since the age of 15.  

Our Family and Relationship Care team offers sexual assault services in Kingaroy and, this month, we spoke to Coordinator Sharon Collins about how the community can support survivors and challenge everyday attitudes that excuse harm. 

“This year’s theme, “Together, We Can,” is more than a slogan,” she said. “It’s a collective call to action that can move us beyond awareness into meaningful community engagement and action to create change.” 

Challenge everyday attitudes 

Change starts with the conversations we have and the behaviour we accept. When sexual violence is normalised, survivors are blamed and perpetrators are excused. This happens in everyday comments, jokes and assumptions. It’s visible when people say things like, “What was she wearing?” or “It was just a joke,” or minimise the experience of harassment.  

“Each time you challenge a comment, call out disrespectful behaviour or stand up for someone, you’re part of the change to create environments where safety and respect are expected,” explained Sharon.  

Listen, believe and support survivors  

Believing survivors is central to healing and prevention. Many assaults aren’t reported, so responding with empathy is essential. Simple affirmations like “I believe you,” “It’s not your fault,” and “I’m here with you” can make a profound difference. Listening without judgement builds trust and helps survivors feel seen and supported. Support also means respecting choices, honouring boundaries, and offering help without taking control. 

Take visible action in your community 

Every time we take part in awareness events, share information, or start a conversation, we help shift the culture around sexual violence. “When we walk together, talk together and stand together, we show survivors they are not alone and send a clear message that our community cares and will act to support them,” said Sharon. 

Build a safer future for everyone 

Creating a future free from sexual violence is a shared journey. Schools, workplaces, families and community services all play a part in promoting respect, consent and equality. By supporting education, prevention programs and policy change, we can help build a culture where sexual violence is understood, prevented and never excused. 

What support is available? 

Centacare Family and Relationship Services Kingaroy offers a free and confidential service for anyone aged 12 and over impacted by sexual violence in a safe and supportive space. We can assist regardless of how historic it might be, whether you think it is ‘serious’ or if your concerns are about a friend or family member.  

Operating at our safe and secure Kingaroy office, our degree qualified practitioners will allow you to share your story and work with you to develop strategies that can help you manage the impact sexual violence has on your life. We can also assist you with reporting the incident to the police and how to navigate court proceedings, should you wish to do so. 

If you, or someone you know, is in immediate danger, phone Queensland Police or Ambulance. 000
For localised information and support services. Contact your GP
13 HEALTH (24 hours, 7 days) provides a confidential phone service that provides health advice. 13 HEALTH 13432584
Policelink (24 hours, 7 days) for non-urgent incidents, crimes and police enquiries. 131 444
Crime Stoppers Queensland. 1800 333 000
Queensland Sexual Assault Helpline offers emotional support and referral pathways to people who have, or think they may have been sexually assaulted or abused. It is also for those who are concerned someone they care about might have been assaulted or abused (7 days, 7.30am – 11.30pm). 1800 010 120
1800 RESPECT (24 hours, 7 days) offers a confidential information, counselling and support service for people impacted by sexual assault, domestic or family violence and abuse. 1800 RESPECT 1800 737 732