While we’re encouraged to eat well, sleep for eight hours and take 10,000 steps a day, for our health and wellbeing, finding ways to connect in our communities should also be a priority.
According to Patricia Gorman, who leads Centacare’s Kingaroy Neighbourhood Centre, social isolation is on the rise, taking a toll on people from all walks of life. Its effects on mental and physical health and wellbeing include anxiety, stress, cognitive decline, low self-esteem and poor sleep.
”Social isolation can result from many different family circumstances”, said Patricia. “Single parents, families experiencing domestic violence or those impacted by mental health challenges are vulnerable to isolation. As well as parents of adult children who have left the family home.”
“Young adults, older people, those with disability, carers, people from a migrant or non-English speaking background, lower income households and those who live alone can also feel socially isolated,” adds Patricia.
“At the Kingaroy Neighbourhood Centre, we provide opportunities for people to connect with others, learn new things and enjoy group activities in a warm, welcoming and safe space.”
What is the difference between social isolation and loneliness?
A person experiences social isolation when they have few social relationships or roles within their community leading to infrequent social interactions. This differs from loneliness, when a person feels unhappy with the ways that they experience social connection, regardless of how frequently they interact with others.
KINGAROY’S COMMUNITY SPIRIT
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Tackling social isolation
Patricia explained that once people become socially isolated and withdrawn, it is more challenging to make those connections that keep us mentally healthy and happy. However, there are things you can do to reconnect with others and build meaningful relationships.
Be kind to yourself – Feeling lonely or disconnected is a natural human experience, practice self-compassion and try not to be self-critical. Talking to a professional can help you process how you are feeling.
Gradual exposure to social situations – If socialising feels overwhelming, start with small interactions such as saying hello to a neighbour or a familiar face at your local shop to build your confidence.
Engage in enjoyable activities – Joining in structured activities can make social interactions feel more natural. Volunteering, joining a club, or participating in a community event can provide a sense of purpose and social connection.
Prioritise self-care – Physical and emotional wellbeing play a crucial role in social engagement. When we don’t feel good, we are less likely to want to interact with others. Maintaining a healthy lifestyle can enhance mood and motivation to connect with others.
Use digital technology mindfully – Digital and social media can help you stay connected but shouldn’t replace real-life interactions. Try to use technology to arrange in-person meetups instead.
Address mental health concerns – As social isolation may be linked to depression, anxiety, or social anxiety disorder you may find it difficult to engage with others due to fear of rejection or distress. Seeking support from a mental health professional can help you to develop strategies and build social confidence.
It’s important to ask for help
If you are experiencing social isolation or are feeling anxious or depressed, it’s important to reach out for support. Our counselling and support services are available over the phone and in-person, in locations throughout South East Queensland.